LIKE ME, YOU’RE PROBABLY A BIT LAZY TOO

Yes, I’m the first to admit. I’ve got a bit of a lazy streak in me. You probably do, too. That’s okay, though, because we humans are naturally programmed to be lazy. It served the biological survival of our species well which is exactly what Mother Nature intended. So blame her for you and me having a natural inclination to sack on the couch, swill beer, (wine in my case) and sleepily abuse the remote.

Laziness has roots in our survival instincts. A long, long time ago, our ancestors didn’t have to think long term. They had to remain focused on the here and now so they could react and survive in case they were attacked by enemies, animals and, well, by nature herself. Conserving energy was paramount to ensuring survival when attacked.

Now, in the modern age, when survival isn’t a top priority, this instinct prevents some of us (me and probably you) from engaging in, or get going on, things—projects—that don’t bring immediate results. We won’t delay our gratification and we subconsciously justify it through procrastination. The reason for human laziness is carved deep into our brain structures. We’re hard-wired to sit on our behind and do nothing unless we really have to.

Another reason for people’s laziness is they haven’t found their own true path. They haven’t developed a dream—a big dream—of what they want to achieve in their life. They haven’t found the soul—the true passion or the fire within—that’s paramount to pursuing that dream, taking massive action, and making that dream a success.

What is success? I just Googled Merriam-Webster that said this: The accomplishment of an aim or purpose. I found another good quote that puts “success” into clear perspective: Accomplishing something you really want to accomplish in the world and getting others to support it and agree that it’s of value.

I’ll share something with you. I have a dream that started in April. A big dream. A huge dream. A monster dream. (Yeah… I know… dreaming big in the middle of a big pandemic…) And I’ve found a passion in my soul that I’ve never felt before.

Yet, I’ve also found a bit of a lazy streak I didn’t want to admit existed. I feel like a push-me-pull-you. In one sense, I have a burning desire to create this dream into a success. In another, I have a reluctance to get my ass in the chair, my fingers on the keys, and do the work.

I’ll tell you what my enormous dream is but, first, let me explain how I got onto this lazy human topic.

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Bill O’Hanlon says he’s the laziest successful person he knows. And Bill knows a lot of lazy people who’ve become successes. Who’s Bill O’Hanlon? Bill is a success guru who wrote A Lazy Man’s Guide to Success. It’s a short and free pdf of 59 pages, and I loved it.

Bill, by the way, is a psychotherapist, author of over thirty books, and a highly sought-after motivational speaker. He’s been on Oprah, spoken internationally many, many times, and is an all-around genuine guy. He runs a website called the Possibility Land, and I found him quite by chance when I was looking for a DyingWords topic.

I’ll sum up Bill O’Hanlon’s Lazyman’s Guide to Success real quick by stealing right from the man himself:

If you are really impatient and don’t have the time or the self-discipline to read my entire guide, here are the Cliff’s Notes formula for success:

  1. Find your soul: the aliveness, energy, passion, and uniqueness that the world has tried to squeeze and shame out of you since you came out of your momma.
  2. Get a dream, a vision, or a direction by following what turns you on or what pisses you off (or both). It’s best to choose one that makes a contribution to the world and is not just about meeting your personal needs.
  3. Take action towards realizing that vision.
  4. Notice whether the actions you have taken have produced results that are moving you towards your goals or dreams. If so, do more of them until you get there. If not, do something different.
  5. Take massive actions, make adjustments based on your observations of the results, vary your actions, and do not stop until you arrive at your destination. I don’t mean that each action you take must be big or bold. You may start with a small step, but start.
  6. Do not be distracted or dissuaded from action by your feelings. Do not attend to or go with your feelings unless they are feelings that help you move forward. Have faith in yourself and the universe, especially when things look bad.
  7. Create more and more evidence in the world that your dream is real so that others will believe in it too.
  8. Keep moving toward your dream – no matter what. Persistence can be powerful.

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Not a bad formula at all, Bill. Not bad at all. “Find your passion. Build a dream. Take massive actions. Have faith. Keep moving toward your dream – no matter what.” You gotta like that advice. One problem, though. Humans are naturally lazy.

Okay. This big dream I have that I’m slowly acting upon? It started in April 2021 and was hidden behind a mask. Literally.

I had the idea of creating a new crime fiction series based on the old hardboiled/noir detective stories of a hundred years ago that were so, so popular. What’s old is new again, right? I see a resurgence of hardboiled headed right at us and almost nobody’s doing it.

That got my soul energized, and I planned out a series while out on long, soul-soothing walks. The concept, characters, and storylines came from here, there, and everywhere within my imagination. Soon, I had an imaginary city built in my mind—a dangerous city filled with heroes and villains and corruption unbound.

I was on a Zoom call with a film industry acquaintance regarding a non-scripted project on a historical multi-murder case I worked on. We wrapped that up for the day, and he asked what filmmakers should ask content producers (aka writers), “So, what else ya got goin’?”

I told him, “I have this dream for a hardboiled detective crime fiction series. The logline is a modern city in crisis enlists two private detectives from its 1920s past to dispense street justice and restore social order. A leading lady and leading man team involving time travel. It’s called City Of Danger.”

There was a long pause till he said, “Reeeally… This is exactly what we’re lookin’ for.”

To make a long story short, City Of Danger is well underway. The video/film rights are verbally optioned to a major netstreaming company—call me stupid for not taking cash up front but, on some forceful advice from an entertainment-specialist lawyer, I’ve left my mean streets and perilous avenues open until I fully understand my product’s potential and its optimum value.

Creatively, my soul was lit like the Rockefeller Christmas tree mixed with the Times Square New Years Eve Ball and my passion gushed like an open Bronx hydrant on a blistering day. I began taking action—massive action— in making this dream a reality. What I didn’t foresee was how much work this project will take, how much energy it’s bound to sap, and the laziness wildcard.

To begin with, I wrote a business plan. It’s comprehensive, and it’s put me in a much better position to go forward with how the City Of Danger business will be built and run. Yes, a business. A money-making business selling products in the entertainment industry. This is an entirely new, stand-alone venture that’s outside of DyingWords and my other commercial publication works.

I began with the end in mind. I had artwork produced showing the two main characters against the backdrop of a dark cityscape. I began a dedicated website for City Of Danger that’s a work-in-progress and always will be. And I renovated my writing studio with part of it recreating a 1920s private detective office.

All this was about getting in the zone—the headspace—so I could think like the characters think, talk with the characters, and let the characters tell me their hardboiled stories so I can write them out. Call it method writing, if you will. Or, you can call it plain escapism fun.

The hard work started immediately when I committed—in writing—to creating City Of Danger and making it a success. I realized I knew almost nothing of the hardboiled genre. Why were the greats like Dashiell Hammett, Raymond Chandler, Mickey Spillane, and Elmore Leonard so great? I went back to school and studied them.

Along this past seven month’s journey, I questioned my ability to successfully pull off something so big that I knew so little about. I took a page from Tiger Wood’s playbook where he described his comeback to win the 2019 Masters. Woods completely took apart his game and rebuilt his swing, his putting, his chipping, his mental attitude, and he looked back at everything the historic Masters champions did to win a green jacket.

I did much the same—rebuilt. I rebuilt myself as a writer. I read a lot on writing craft. A lot on the business of writing. A lot on mental attitude. And a lot on who the writing masters of hardboiled detective fiction really were, as well as how their great stories were structurally built and emotionally told for massive audience reception.

I read about screenwriting, and I took screenwriting courses. I studied what hardboiled genre films, like Humphrey Bogart in The Maltese Falcon, made it big and what similar-themed TV shows were a success.

Success. There’s that word again. Success. I have my focus on success with City Of Danger, but there’s one huge obstacle to overcome daily. That’s my tendency to be a bit lazy at times and not do the work. The real work. The writing work that makes a dream like this a success.

Yes, I’m the first to admit. I have a bit of a lazy streak in me. You probably do, too. That’s okay, though, because we humans are naturally programmed to be lazy.

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Footnote: The pilot episode of City Of Danger is set for release in June 2022. It’ll start as an ebook series, released one episode each month, with intentions to follow with print and audio versions. The netstreaming side is an entirely different venture—currently in the hush-hushed shadows. I’ll keep you posted. 😉

19 thoughts on “LIKE ME, YOU’RE PROBABLY A BIT LAZY TOO

  1. Lauren Purdy

    Well all that’s mighty exciting!
    We have vastly different ideas of what laziness is, even your pre-accomplishments (like your amazing writing space) I consider huge accomplishments in themselves. But that’s why your accomplishments amaze me but your successes don’t.
    I’m always cheering for you, Garry, cause you Earn every success you have.
    I Love this whole concept and feel you’re Definitely the guy to bring it to life, and I really look forward to seeing idealized justice done thru the heart & mind of someone who seems to have such an unwavering dedication to rock-bottom right against wrong, and the words of such a skilled writer..

    1. Garry Rodgers Post author

      Well, thank you very much for the very flattering comment, Lauren. I truly appreciate hearing this! I try to “get ‘er done” most days, but sometimes surfing Facebook takes precedent over feeding Amazon 😉 It’s encouragement like yours that drives me back to the chair and the keys. Thanks again!!

  2. Evelyn M

    Congratulations Garry. Pretty impressive career objectives. My characters like to sit and chat with me as well.. perchance for me to pen their stories. Wishing you the best in your endeavours! I look forward to reading your new stories.. from a Mickie Spillane and Elmore Leonard fan, Evelyn

    1. Garry Rodgers Post author

      You’re my ideal reader, Evelyn! Stephen King tells us mortal writers to tell stories with ideal reader in mind – write like a personal letter to her. I’m going to write City Of Danger with you addressed on the envelopes.

      Nice to hear your characters chat – mine shout and want dinner made. I’ve pretty much sold. Gotta go cook.

    1. Garry Rodgers Post author

      Thanks so much, Kay! I really appreciate hearing this and I know it’s a genuine endorsement. They say inspiration and perspiration have a ratio. Hopefully I still smell good when this goes live. 🙂

  3. GUY LEPAGE

    Knowing you, you will break through, I am looking forward to June 22/22. I will be watching for it, but keep reminding me. Good luck, do not look back.

    G

  4. Dale Ivan Smith

    Very inspiring post, Garry! Congratulations on doing the big work and breaking new ground for yourself with City of Danger. I’m looking forward to seeing it in print (and hopefully, on screen). I can totally relate to being lazy. It can be a real challenge to park my butt in chair, and keep hands on keyboard. You and Bill are both right–passion is key. Focusing on your “mission” rather than expectations of how it might be received.

    I’m also very impressed with the work you’ve put into steeping yourself in the hard-boiled sub-genre and leveling up your writing craft. Inspires me to double down on my own efforts in cozy mystery.

    Looking forward to your next post!

    1. Garry Rodgers Post author

      Thank you so much for the encouraging words, Dale! I think passion is the key element to staying in the writing business. There is no way a writer can “succeed” if they don’t have a burning desire to do the work. “The Indie Author Mindset” by Adam Croft was a complete game-changer for me when I adopted the mindset to treat my writing as a commercial business rather than a “when I get around to it” hobby. I have a little sign beside my screen that says “Achieving success is easy. Staying successful is really hard”. Enjoy your day, my friend!

  5. Chuck Ericson

    Garry, best of luck to you, and thank you for the inspirational links and ideas. You have devoted your life to law and saving others and catching criminals, so who better qualified?? I am fascinated by your blog. I would understand, although reluctantly, if you no longer had time for it. Legalities, criminality, and death are long-time interests of mine. An armchair RCMP officer, if you will. Keep ’em coming!

    1. Garry Rodgers Post author

      Thanks for the encouraging words, Chuck. I can’t ever see stopping my bi-weekly DyingWords blog – if only for the selfish reason that it motivates me to “Do The Work”. I try to balance the content around the site’s tagline of “Provoking Thoughts on Life, Death, and Writing”. I see from my stats the most-read ones are on high profile crime and mystery cases I research and analyze, but I still like to keep the writer crowd interested. The next true crime post I have planned is analyzing the incredible interrogation and confession of serial killer Colonel Russell Williams. In all my years of being in an interrogation room, I’ve never seen a better skillset that what Detective Sergeant Jim Smyth utilized. Utterly outstanding!

  6. Deb Gorman

    Great post, Garry! Unfortunately, the Deb-is-lazy thing is…well, really a thing. Sometimes I console myself that I’m “thinking”; sometimes I am, but sometimes it’s just an excuse.

    Thanks for this post, and I look forward to the fruit of your screenwriting labors, my friend!

    1. Garry Rodgers Post author

      We all need time to laz… er… ah… think, Deb. It’s never a bad excuse to hold off work when it’s think-time. Nice to see you this morning. I’m always a day behind reading The Kill Zone. I don’t know what it is about my WordPress link, but it has a horrible dislike for TKZ.

      1. Deb Gorman

        Me, too. It seems like every morning I have to come up with a work-around to see comments, make comments, and plant a “like” on some. Aaargh!

  7. Suzanne Gochenouer

    Your new dream and the reality you’re creating around it are fascinating, Garry. Your detective team is stepping into the type of story I’m eager to add to my wish list. Redecorating your office to match the storyline is an inspired move. I look forward to news about the screen life of your dream.

    1. Garry Rodgers Post author

      Thanks, Suzanne! Redecorating the office was a lot of fun. If you look close in the photo, you’ll see a lot of original artifacts from that period. I even scored an original silk movie poster of Maltese Falcon 🙂 “Screen life of your dream.” With the amount of work this is turning into, I hope it doesn’t become “Scream life of my dream.” 🙂

  8. Sue Coletta

    Making big dreams a reality takes hard work and perseverance. You have both in spades, sweet friend. Keep on keepin’ on!

    Fascinating research, Garry. The holidays don’t help with distractions, neither does the rising infection rate. Hence why I’ve been taking breaks from social media and the blogosphere. It’s amazing how much better I feel and how much more I can accomplish when I block out the world. The best part? I stopped feeling guilty about it. If I need to make headway with a project, I take the time I need. Social media isn’t going anywhere, but falling behind can take twice as long to catch up. Learned that the hard way.

    Now, if you’ll excuse me, I have a blog post to write…

    1. Garry Rodgers Post author

      Larry Brooks once told me he’d never met anyone more dedicated to the writing craft than Sue Coletta. Now knowing you, Sue, for years, Larry is 100% right. You sure aren’t scared of doing the work, and I see your swing to dropping the “nice girl” stuff which you should have the remorse of a serial killer about. And yeah, social media is a time suck, but how else would I have found the pic of the lazy pug in bed with its tongue hanging out? Looking forward to reading your newest post, my BFF!

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