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ARE YOU A WRITER? THEN WRITE!

Great to have BestSelling author and social media expert Rachel Thompson as a guest on DyingWords. I follow Rachel on her sites, BadRedHeadMedia and Rachel in the OC, and love her No-BS style. She generously agreed to share some thoughts on writing.

Rachel1AI noticed an extremely talented writer friend hadn’t blogged for awhile, so I checked in on her last night. She decided to take a break due to some harsh comments from those supposedly ‘in the know,’ and was taking time to lick her wounds and hadn’t written in months. I am a true fan, and was shocked to see her so affected. But I could relate. 

Been there, done that. I gave her this advice: ‘Screw ‘em. Trust your voice. They’re jealous of your amazing talent, and by silencing you, they are somehow feeling better about their lack of it.’

Write, my dear friends. Ignore what THEY say. Trust your voice, believe in yourself. You are amazing.

‘YOU CAN’T WRITE’

Rachel2AI’ve been there. Someone I respected, who was ‘in the know,’ told me that my work wasn’t ‘ready for publication, was boring, that nobody would read it.’ So, I walked away from that situation. Doesn’t matter who that person is. What’s important is that I listened, I let it affect me, and I crawled into a dark, gray hole. For a nanosecond.

SO I WROTE ANYWAY

Rachel3And then completely ignored this person’s advice, wrote Broken Pieces, the book this person said nobody would read, because I trusted my voice. And it not only changed my life, it also connected me to so many amazing survivors, writers, readers, bloggers, reviewers…to PEOPLE I likely would never have otherwise met.

LET PEOPLE HELP YOU

Your first draft is going to be awful. Terrible. Shit. So what? You’re no different than…

Ernest Hemingway: The first draft of anything is shit” or

Rachel 4BAnne Lamott: “Almost all good writing begins with terrible first efforts. You need to start somewhere. Start by getting something—anything—down on paper. What I’ve learned to do when I sit down to work on a shitty first draft is to quiet the voices in my head.”

I personally refer to my first drafts as ‘word vomit.’ The problem, I’ve discovered, is that most new writers try too hard to make their writing perfect on the first try (impossible, I tell you!), so that when they receive criticism (and they will), they crumple. I was no different. So…what to do?

Blogging helps. Share your writing.

Rachel5BBut when it comes to getting ready for publication (no matter which direction you take), hire a writing coach, or a professional editor, someone who knows about writing and does this for a living. Not your Aunt Edna who used to correct English papers back in the day.

You are too close to it to edit your own work. And by edit, I do not mean grammar and proof — no, no, no. I mean structural edits — looking at the entire content and seeing what flows, what fits, what doesn’t, what needs revision, what needs to be cut.

BUT I HAVE NO MONEY!

Rachel6AGosh, if I had a nickel for every time I’ve heard this, I’d be rich by now. I get it, I do. I’m there, too. But guess what? Your book will not sell if it’s riddled with errors. You cannot afford not to hire a professional. Would you do your own heart surgery? No.

Besides, there are terrific options now: crowdfund using Pubslush (a crowdfunding platform just for book projects), look at Bibliocrunch (find quality professionals for your book publishing needs within your budget), barter services, whatever! Make it happen.

Point is this: writers write.

Don’t let anyone influence you about you. Trust your voice. Protect it, above all else.

Figure the rest out later.

 “Express yourself, don’t repress yourself” ~ Madonna (Human Nature)

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Rachel7Rachel Thompson is the author of the award-winning Broken Pieces, as well as two additional humor books, A Walk In The Snark and Mancode: Exposed. Rachel is published and represented by Booktrope.

Rachel9She owns BadRedhead Media, creating effective social media and book marketing campaigns for authors, and Rachel in the OC where she gives writing and marketing advice.

Rachel10Her articles appear regularly in The Huffington PostThe San Francisco Book Review (BadRedhead Says…), 12Most.com, bitrebels.com, BookPromotion.com, and Self-Publishers Monthly.

Rachel1Rachel is the creator and founder of #MondayBlogs and #SexAbuseChat and an advocate for sexual abuse survivors. She hates walks in the rain, running out of coffee, and coconut. She lives in California with her family.

Watch for Rachel Thompson’s new book, Broken Places, which is being released shortly.

HOW SPECIAL OPERATION FORCES FUNCTION IN CATASTROPHES

Bob Mayer is a US Army West Point graduate, Green Beret Special Forces veteran, and a prolific writer, publisher, and teacher. He’s also a down-to-earth guy who’s mission is to help others succeed. Thanks, Bob, for sharing your experience about preparing for chaos.

Bob1Catastrophe planning in the civilian world is primarily the province of engineers and management. The problem with that is engineers and management are trained for, plan for, and work in a controlled environment (what they think is a controlled environment). So delusion events are outside their comfort zone; aberrations.

In fact, engineers and managers are often trained to be blind to cascade events. Their training and work environment normally does not reward focusing on cascade events, but rather punishes it.

Bob3West Point is an extraordinarily controlled environment. Things run almost perfectly there; so much so that graduates often have problems adjusting to the ‘real’ Army they go into. But West Point also has over 200 years of experience training leaders and preparing soldiers for war. This accumulation of institutional knowledge is inculcated in cadets in a high-pressure cauldron of mental, physical, and emotional stress for four years.

Of course, sometimes it doesn’t take, as you’d see in one of the events I cover in Shit Doesn’t Just Happen – The Gift of Failure. This book focuses on a number of colossal failures, including West Point’s most notorious graduate – Breverant Colonel George Armstrong Custer.

Bob4Special Operations soldiers train for war. War is called controlled chaos; an incessant series of cascade events. War might be considered the ultimate catastrophe and combat a final event. In order to prepare for this final event, Special Operations soldiers train for, plan for, and work in a chaotic environment every day.

Mentally, the most difficult training I went through was Robin Sage, the final exercise in the Special Forces Qualification Course. Robin Sage is where a team of students is sent into isolation, and then infiltrates into the North Carolina countryside to conduct a guerilla warfare exercise. A critical component of Robin Sage is to put prospective Green Berets in lose-lose scenarios. This is a training scenario where there is no ‘right’ solution. Rigid minds are often unable to think creatively while under stress and lose-lose training quickly determines someone’s capabilities.

Thinking outside of the immediate situation is important in preparing for and averting catastrophes.

Do you remember in the Star Trek movie (Wrath of Khan) when Captain Kirk talks about being at Star Fleet Academy and being the only officer to have passed the Kobayashi Maru simulator program?

Bob5The basic problem and the opening of the movie was set up this way: A Star Fleet ship which the student commands is patrolling near the neutral zone. A distress call is received from a disabled Federation vessel inside the neutral zone. An enemy warship is approaching from the other side. It’s a vessel more powerful than the one the student commands. The choices seem obvious: ignore the distress call (which violates the law of space) or go to its aid (violating the neutral zone) and face almost certain destruction from the enemy vessel. As you can see, both choices are bad.

Bob6What Kirk did was sneak into the computer center the night before he was scheduled to go through the simulation and change the parameters so that he could successfully save the vessel without getting destroyed. Would you have thought of that? Was it cheating? If you ain’t cheating you ain’t trying. It’s not cheating when it succeeds.

A key to lose-lose training is you get to see how someone reacts when they are wrong or fail. Lose-lose training is a good way to put people in a crisis. Frustration can often lead to anger, which can lead to failure or enlightenment.

If a catastrophe struck, whom would you want at your side helping you?

Bob8A doctor? Lawyer? Engineer? MBA? Teacher? While they all have special skills, I submit that the overwhelming choice might well be a US Special Forces Green Beret or, the best in the business – a British 22SAS. Someone trained in survival, medicine, weapons, tactics, communications, engineering, counter-terrorism, tactical and strategic intelligence, and with the capability to be a force multiplier.

Most important, you want someone who has been handpicked, survived rigorous training, and has the positive mental outlook to not only survive, but thrive in chaos, and knows how to be part of a team. Green Berets have been called Masters of Chaos. They don’t manage. They lead.

The key to dealing with catastrophes is leadership, not management.

Bob8AOften, in order to deal with a cascade event, leadership and courage are needed to go against a culture of complacency and fear. In every catastrophe, fear is a factor in at least one, if not more, cascade events. This fear runs the gamut from physical fear, to job security fear, to social fear, to physical fear. Few people want to be the ‘boy who cries wolf’ even when they see a pack of wolves. What’s even harder is when we’re the only one who sees the wolf in sheep’s clothing.

Bob9I’ve written Shit Doesn’t Just Happen: The Gift of Failure to help individuals and organizations avoid catastrophes, but I come at it from a different direction as a former Special Operations soldier. In the Special Forces (Green Berets) the key to our successful missions was the planning. The preparation. In isolation, we war-gamed as many possible catastrophe situations we could imagine for any upcoming mission and prepared as well as we could for them. In fact, we expected things to go wrong, a very different mindset from that of engineers and management.

We were firm believers in Murphy’s Law: What can go wrong, will. In other words: Shit doesn’t just happen. It will happen.

Our job was to deal with it.

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Bob Mayer Bob10is a NY Times Bestselling author, graduate of West Point, former Green Beret (including commanding an A-Team) and the feeder of two Yellow Labs, most famously Cool Gus.

Bob11Bob’s had over 60 books published including the #1 series Area 51, Atlantis and The Green Berets. Born in the Bronx, having travelled the world (usually not tourist spots), he now lives peacefully with his wife, and said labs, at Write on the River, TN.

Bob12Thanks, Bob. You’re a great writer, a great teacher, and great pathfinder in the publishing business. Like some guys that we know say – “Who Dares Wins“.

Bob runs three websites:

http://www.bobmayer.org/

http://coolgus.com/

http://writeitforward.wordpress.com/

Follow Bob on Twitter @Bob_Mayer

His Facebook page is https://www.facebook.com/authorbobmayer

CJ LYONS – DIRTY LITTLE SECRETS OF PUBLISHING

It’s a real privilege to host acclaimed New York Times Multi-BestSelling author CJ Lyons as a guest on www.DyingWords.net. CJ generously offered to share this piece of wisdom about what it takes to be successfully published in today’s ever-changing writing industry.

CJ1B81% of Americans say they want to write a book someday. The most common mistake unpublished writers make is that they don’t write. They talk about writing. They’ll polish the same ten pages for contest entries over and over, bring the same scene to their critique partners repeatedly, work for ten years on the same manuscript, and complain about not getting published.

Here’s Ten Secrets about what it takes to get published.

Secret #10: Writers write… successful writers keep writing.

Yes, they’ll hone their craft. Yes, they’ll pour their heart and soul into a project. Yes, they’ll revise until it’s the best they can do. But they also keep writing. They’re always open for new ideas, new directions, new challenges. It might mean trying a new genre, stretching their point of view skills, or trying a new plotting or editing technique.

CJ2They’re in constant search for something that will spark their passion. That “one thing” no one has tried before or been able to pull off the way they know they can. They don’t want to fit in with the herd. They want to outrace it, be trail-blazers, forging their own unique paths…this is how they find their voice. And once they find it, they embrace it, instead of denying it.

They learn how to finish a project and when a project needs to be set aside because “good” just isn’t “good enough.” They realize that they’re not competing with other unpublished authors, they’re competing with New York Times bestsellers. They’re prepared to work just as hard as any bestseller when it comes to honing their craft, learning the business, and managing their career. 

Secret #9: Your first book won’t be the first book you sell. 

Most published authors will have written at least half a million words, usually between four to six completed novels, before they sell.

Makes perfect sense–you wouldn’t let a college freshman or even a med student do brain surgery, right? Be prepared to finish projects and move on if they aren’t striking a chord with industry professionals. It might mean your writing needs work, or the market is over-saturated, or your wonderful idea just isn’t hitting the right desks at the right time.  

CJ4Embrace every rejection letter not as a failure but a success. Because with each one, you’ve done more than most people dream of…you finished a novel and had the courage to set it free. And, when you do find your voice and polish your craft and hit the right desk at the right time, the first thing your new agent is going to ask you is: what else do you have for me?   

Then you’ll be very happy that you have those other completed manuscripts ready and waiting!

Secret #8: It’s not about finding an agent, it’s about finding the RIGHT agent! 

CJ3Finding an agent is like going on a blind date and getting married that same night. You’ve probably never met, or if you have, it was for a ten minute pitch session when everyone is playing a role and on their best behavior. Once you sign with an agent you are entrusting them with your reputation, your finances, your future. Take the time to find the Right One for you.

Secret #7: Know your readers. Know your genre. Know your market.  

CJ5AOnce you have your agent, you don’t get to slink back to your cave and just write. Yes, your agent may have some ideas about which editors and publishers are right for your work, but you need to know who your A list editors are and why. Talk to your agent about long-term career planning. Do you always see yourself writing in this genre? How do you want your agent to market you? There’s a big difference between an agent telling an editor, “I have a hot new thriller writer” and “I have a hot new romantic suspense author” even though the book might be the same.

Understand where the market and genre you’ve chosen have been, where they are, and where they’re heading. Educate yourself. Target the editors you submit your work to. Find the ones who respond to your writing, but more importantly find one who will champion your work. 

Secret #6: Contracts only favor the publisher!  

CJ6You did it! You’ve sold!! Yeah!!! Now what? Your agent will already have some negotiating points in mind, but first you need to educate yourself on the basics. What’s a pre-empt? What’s an auction?  What’s an advance? Who’s making the most: a “nice” deal for $30 K, a “very nice” deal for $50 K, a “good” deal for $100K? 

If the first is for one book, the second for two, and the third for five books, then your “good” deal author may be in trouble. How far are you willing to fight for your subrights, like movie/TV, e-books, audio? Where will you draw the line? You and your agent need to have the answers before you sign the contract.

Secret #5: The average book receives $800 in marketing from their publisher.

Actually, based on some recent conversations, I fear this is actually more money than most books get for their marketing budget.

CJ1Yes, we’re repeatedly told that part of our jobs as writers is to build a platform, create a brand, get out there and blog, Tweet, Facebook, and sell, sell, sell!!!  Here’s the reality: Marketing is worthless without your publisher behind you.  AND the one thing publishers forget while they’re telling you to get busy selling your books, is that the BEST marketing is taking the time to write the next one!  Protect your work instead of getting frenzied promoting it. Write the next book. Then, if you have energy left over to promote, go for it!

Secret #4: People DO judge books by their covers.  

CJ9My first publishing deal was a debut author’s dream: a hard cover pre-empt with a major NYC publisher, over a dozen NYT bestseller endorsements (including one from Sandra Brown!), great pre-orders and pre-sale buzz…enough to lead the publisher to double their initial planned print run. Until…the cover art finally arrived.

Monochrome shades of bile green destined to make anyone trying to read the cover quotes or cover flap material literally nauseous. Yes, my wonderful debut found itself dressed in the ugliest, most physically revolting cover I’d ever seen!

I wasn’t the only one who felt this way. As soon as the booksellers saw it, they cancelled all their orders. But the publisher stood by their cover art (rather than my book) and pulled it 100 days prior to publication….no more debut dream for me…. 

Secret #3: Expect change, embrace change.   

CJ10As you can see from the story above, change is the one constant in this business. You’ll be faced with new editors, new agents, maybe even new publishing lines as companies trim and merge and re-structure. Be professional. Know how to break up and still stay friends. Be alert to new opportunities: new publishing models, new genres…always growing your brand rather than dividing it. And above all else, stay true to your vision! 

(Which, by the way, is exactly what I did and that book-that-never-was is now a bestselling e-book!)

Secret #2: Write 2K / Read 2K  

CJ11Ever have someone tell you they want to write a book or they are writing a book and then say, “I don’t read”? Happens all the time. But if you’re going to have a career in writing, you need to love reading. Read everything. Not just your genre but others as well. Look for the cutting edge in trends, new twists on language that make you smile, even bad writing that makes you cringe—so that you can learn how to avoid those pitfalls.

CJ12It’s difficult, because once we begin to write we often find it hard not to edit as we read–and we have less time than ever. I have finally given myself permission to not finish a book that isn’t working for me. When a book does work for me, when it transports me so that my internal editor turns off, I’ll drink it in, immersing myself in it. Then I’ll set it aside for a day or two before I go back and try to dissect why it worked or make note of any particularly magical phrases, word choices.

Not to steal, but to study.

Why did I connect so strongly with this character? How was the setting used to evoke emotion? What made the plot twist at the end both believable and devastatingly surprising? W2K / R2K is a formula my agent came up with: Write 2,000 words a day / Read 2,000 words a day. 

Secret #1: Writers may write alone, but you can’t be a writer alone.  

CJ13We may have the innate talent to become storytellers, but there’s no way to walk the road to publication without a lot of help from a lot of people. When people ask me the secret to getting published, I tell them, it’s surrounding themselves with the right people – even if they never meet in person.

Those people could be the authors of the kind of books they aspire to write, online teachers and mentors on writing forums who offer support and advice, a group of like-minded professionals like those in Romance Writers of America or International Thriller Writers, the spouse who understands that when they start mumbling dialogue it doesn’t mean they’re talking to themselves.

Throughout history storytellers have held a revered place in communities.

CJ14EIt takes a village–support from non-writers (aka enablers who feed your addiction), fellow writers who understand all about the voices in your head, mentors, your publishing/career team, booksellers, reviewers, and above all readers.

How do you know you made it?  

CJ15For some it’s being able to quit the day job, for others seeing their name in print and getting good reviews, but for me it’s hearing from fans who tell me my stories–those silly voices in my head that got me into so much trouble when I was a kid–that my books have made a difference in their lives. Like the commercial says… priceless. Becoming a career novelist is not simply a question of perseverance. It’s a question of passion.   

Where’s your passion? How can you be the best you instead of a pale imitation of someone else? Are your stories the kind of stories that speak to the eternal, that resonate with your audience, that will still have something to say to people decades from now? Be committed. To lifelong work, lifelong learning, lifelong growth. You’ll never have all the answers. 

CJ16Take a lesson from writers like Stephen King who insist on constant re-invention and challenging themselves. King says, “Talent is cheaper than table salt. What separates the talented individual from the successful one is a lot of hard work”.

When asked, “How do you write?” I invariably answer, “One word at a time.”  

Happy writing!  CJ 

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CJ17As a pediatric ER doctor, CJ Lyons has lived the life she writes about in her cutting edge thrillers. In addition to being an award-winning, bestselling author, CJ is a nationally known presenter and keynote speaker.

CJ8CJ has been called a “master within the genre” (Pittsburgh Magazine) and her work has been praised as “breathtakingly fast-paced” and “riveting” (Publishers Weekly) with “characters with beating hearts and three dimensions” (Newsday). 

CJ20Her award-winning, critically acclaimed Angels of Mercy series (LIFELINES, WARNING SIGNS, URGENT CARE and CRITICAL CONDITION) is available now. Her newest project is as co-author of a new suspense series with Erin Brockovich.

You can learn more at http://www.cjlyons.net or find her writing books at www.NoRulesJustWrite.com .

Follow CJ on Twitter @CJLyonswriter

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